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THE WOMEN'S LEADERSHIP JOURNAL

When women connect, the world changes

   Letter from the Editor
June 2011   

Feminism, bra-burning and women’s development

It seems that conversations around women’s leadership have come full circle. Topics that were regarded as somewhat offbeat are becoming so much more mainstream that even men are offering their version of “why we all need feminine business principles” to the speaking circuit.

But whether you think that this is expedient or a sign of how far we’ve come, the fact that a niche is becoming more popular does not mean that our work is done.

So I’m always a little wary of suggestions that the focus on women’s development is becoming a little tired and that we should focus on a gender-free conversation.

In her article on Women as the next smart business strategy, Candice Silverstone of Deloitte Consulting writes that “While South Africa may be more progressive than its global counterparts in boasting females in management positions (attributed largely to legislated gender equality and employment equity, this finding falls short at more senior positions, with glaring absences of women at CxO and Board levels.”

And although this struggle is fundamental, the sad truth is that for the millions of women who come from less privileged, far crueller circumstances, the reality is much more stark.

“Just taking our own country as an example will expose you to rape and domestic violence statistics that will make you want to weep. In most places in South Africa, the phrase 'single, working mother' can conveniently be shortened to 'mother' because there is no other kind,” writes Fiona Snyckers, mother, feminist and author.

Pregs Govender, one of South Africa’s most outspoken and most accessible feminists, fielded a potentially charged area with signature warmth and ease at our Cape Town women’s leadership conference in May when a delegate posed a question about “bra-burning feminists”.

In fact feminists never burned their bras at all, she explained, and gently pointed out that anyone who supports human rights must by definition support feminism too.

As the newly elected president of IWFSA (The International Women’s Forum of South Africa) Vuyo Mahlati tells us, rather than being overdone, women’s development needs to increase as long as the gender picture remains skewed.

Thankfully there is more research emerging to prove that organisations that advance women are harnessing numerous competitive advantages. But even more urgent is the fact that we need more women leaders to help solve the world’s most pressing problems. No, our work is far from over.

Warm regards
Debby Edelstein


   Q&A with Vuyokazi Mahlati

5 minutes with... Vuyokazi Mahlati

Vuyo Mahlati is the newly appointed President of the International Women’s Forum of South Africa, focusing on women leadership, talent and building global leadership networks across the continent and the world.

Who do you regard as your all-time female role model/leader?

My female role model is the late MaSisulu [Albertina Sisulu], particularly as an activist who with integrity and grace handled roles as mother, wife and professional, to the appreciation of all.

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   Book review




Love and Courage: A story of insubordination by Pregs Govender
Reviewed by Debby Edelstein

Love and Courage: A story of insubordination (Jacana) is Pregs Govender’s own story, a story of personal and political power told with humanity, integrity and humility.

Pregs is widely admired for her courage and integrity of purpose, qualities that inspired her contribution as an activist and feminist, teacher and trade unionist, and from 1994 to 2002, as a member of South Africa’s democratic parliament.

But there’s also a dancing spirit that runs throughout her story, which starts with her childhood in Durban. And it’s that spirit which makes her book a great read in addition to a great South African commentary. It also meant that she was a delightful energy to have at our women’s leadership conference in Cape Town this year.

She ends her book with the words: “I would finish writing this story even if in the writing of it I spiralled wildly. I would one day release it. I would trust myself as I danced on air.”

Well, release it she did. And she also led us all in dance to the beat of BlaqPearl at the Peninsula Hotel.

We have five copies of Pregs’ book to give away. All you need to do is email Debby with the name of your top South African woman leader.


   Learning about leadership







...with Michelle Obama


From helping to harvest vegetables in a community garden in Soweto and kicking soccer balls with Desmond Tutu to meeting with 75 Young African Women Leaders, American First Lady Michelle Obama's goodwill mission to South Africa and Botswana last week focused on youth leadership, education, health and wellness, and closer relations with Africa.

The 75 young women selected by US embassies across Africa included farmers and HIV/Aids workers, DJs and reporters, artists, businesswomen and even a 16-year-old matriculant.

"I want my daughters to be like you: strong, beautiful and hard-working," Mrs Obama told them.

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Photographs courtesy Darren Smith





...Dr Winfrey, I presume

By Kim Shaw

Oprah Winfrey became a Kovsie this month.

For those not familiar with the term, it's given to students attending the University of the Free State and Oprah was in town to receive an honorary doctorate of education.

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Photographs from Camera on Campus: Rian Horn, Johan Roux, Stephen Collett


   The art of listening


The Listening Game
By Kim Shaw

Inspired by Bohmian dialogue and the work of writers like Nancy Kline (Time to Think) Debby Edelstein makes sure that all QualityLife Company conferences are grounded in basic principles of listening.

So once again, one of the exercises we did at this year's “We Are The Leaders We've Been Waiting for” conferences involved the art of listening. There's a Chinese proverb that says, "To listen well is as powerful a means of influence as to talk well, and is essential to all true conversation". It seems obvious that when someone is talking, the other person is listening, but that doesn't always happen.

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   Competitions!

Congratulations to Dr Kathy Sole, winner of last month's prize of a bush break at Likweti in Mpumalanga! In this issue we've got a relaxing weekend for two plus hampers of Imazine Ionic watches to give away!

WIN A MAGALIESBERG GETAWAY

Win a relaxing two-night stay at the four-star Valley Lodge & Spa in the Magaliesberg by emailing your name and contact details, as well as the answer to the following question, to Lizzy

Entries must reach us by 15 July 2011. One lucky winner will receive a two-night stay for two people sharing on a dinner, bed and breakfast basis in one of the Superior Rooms. (Terms and conditions apply.)

Question: Where is Valley Lodge & Spa situated?

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WIN IMAZINE IONIC WATCHES AND BRACELETS

Win a set of fashionable Imazine Ionic watches and bracelets worth R600, as worn by SA actress Vanessa Haywood.

Email your name and contact details, as well as the answer to the following question, to Lizzy. Entries must reach us by 15 July 2011. Eight lucky winners will each receive a gift pack containing two Imazine Ionic watches and two sets of bracelets worth R600.

Question: Which SA actress has a range of Imazine Ionic sportswear watches, bracelets and bands?

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   Inspiration





How to launch a social media project


Tips from Melanie Minnaar, founder of the Twitter Blanket Drive.

A few practical tips if you have a social media campaign that you want to get off the ground:


  • Know what your project will and won’t do; this is essential so that you can constantly evaluate opportunities and proposals against the intended vision for the project.

  • Develop a communication plan; social media is a unique and very dynamic form of communication, just as print advertising is not the same as TV advertising – you need to acknowledge the intrinsics of the medium and remain true and constant to the medium.

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   Gold hearts

Our speakers hearted these


Each of our speakers at the "We Are The Leaders We've Been Waiting For" conference in Cape Town was delighted to receive one of the beautiful gold hearts created by the My Gold Heart project.

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   Upcoming events


QualityLife Company has a number of workshops coming up during July, as well as the Women in Technology conference in September.

For more information or to book, email Lizzy, call 011 880 9749 or visit www.qualitylife.co.za.


Multiplying your BlackBerry Productivity: Making the most of your BlackBerry - Monday 18 July, Johannesburg

The mobile phone provides you with the freedom to work from anywhere, but being untethered from the office has repercussions for all aspects of our lives. If you think your smartphone has you on a short leash, join us for a morning as you learn how to work more efficiently on your BlackBerry.


Getting Things Done With Microsoft Outlook - Tuesday 19 July, Johannesburg

In today’s business world with fast-changing priorities and demands on your attention and energy, you need a complete system that can seamlessly move between emails, appointments, action reminders and reference notes in order to support you to be “ready for anything” at any time during the day! Learn how MS Outlook can do all of this for you, and more, in an applicable and practical workshop.

Mastering Organisational Politics: A crash course in power and influence - Wednesday 27 July, Johannesburg

When a group of people come together there is a political dynamic – it’s unavoidable. Somebody will have an idea that they believe is better than the other ideas and then they will try to find supporters in order to gain influence. Come and discuss political power and how important changes shaping the nature of work in today's complex organisations demand that we become more sophisticated with respect to issues of leadership, power and influence.

Wired Women: Women Shaping the Digital Economy - 14/15 September 2011, Johannesburg

Join us as we explore the issues that are key to exploiting technology for business and communities, and encouraging women to enter the technology space. Attend this conference if you want to learn how to engage with the digital economy and how to take advantage of the new opportunities technology has to offer.


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